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Make allowances for people, command what is right, and turn away from the ignorant. (Surat Al-A‘raf, 199)

Forgiveness. We find it so impossible to forgive and even harder to forget. There is so much good in this world. So much good in people so much that people do for you that makes them deserving for genuine smile by you if nothing else. We find it so hard to forgive those who were not even related to us, with whom we never had the chance to meet, chance to talk to. Chance to know. What gives us the authority on their personal choices? What gives us authority to judge them for things they said or did or lived things which we did not affect us. Remember the people by the good they did for you. The people who listened to you and did not judge even though you did quiet questionable things, even I you are not friends with them anymore. People who spent hours and days with you, who saved something for you, you forgot behind. It’s alright you and them don’t think the same. When I turn back there is a list of people who I don’t talk to anymore. Some who hurt me, some who moved on, who changed, some who made some mean choices. Does all that make them bad people? One has to remember not always we make the best choices, sometimes we do things unconsciously that might hurt someone else. All of us do it, we are humans, we make so many mistakes, we all need to forgiveness, we all want acceptance, we seek forgiveness at some level. We all are sinners, big ones. Do onto others what you want done onto you. So next time you point finger at a person dead or alive, holding them to be judged for what they did or said. Remember you might have done something worse, only difference is that you don’t have a mob judging you. You as Individual or as group of people don’t have the authority to judge or forgive or spew hate. Everyone is responsible for their actions, so am I and so are you. So be nice, with everyone, or silent if niceness comes hard in that situation, even though you are judging them in your heart, try to keep it that way. Life for you and for all people all around you will be so much be easier. Things are so hateful, virtual wars and hate matches the standard of violence like none before, so it would be one drop less in the ocean of unasked prejudice if we don’t contribute.


5 thoughts on “Forgiveness

    Ravian719 said:
    December 10, 2016 at 6:33 am

    I believe, sometimes holding on is more painful than letting go.

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      zarish94fatima responded:
      December 10, 2016 at 6:36 am

      it is always more painful than letting go.

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        Ravian719 said:
        December 10, 2016 at 6:38 am

        So why is it so difficult? Why can’t we just one day wake up and forgive and forget everything that has been making us bleed and opening old wounds in our heart?


        zarish94fatima responded:
        December 10, 2016 at 6:44 am

        nobody can do that, but if we accept the fact that we will be hurt and we hurt and that is part of being human, it will get easier.

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    Ravian719 said:
    December 10, 2016 at 6:49 am

    But sometimes holding a grudge gives us incomprehensible and illimitable strength. Won’t it?


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